Drama and Disagreement after the Legs Open

The email correspondence began with, “I miss you”. A disclosure that begs for an identical sentiment. Unfortunately, the conversation below ended in the typical feminine outburst and with a brand of machismo innocence.

What is the usual result when a woman has invested her feelings (opened up her legs) while the man has not taken any action to become emotionally involved/connected (behaving like the animal he is)? DRAMA that rarely ends with the female admitting she may just be responsible for her very own pity party. DISAGREEMENT that relinquishes the male of any responsibility.

The Conversation

Good morning Mr. Man. I miss you. –The Female
Miss you too. No boyfriend yet? –The Male
Very funny.........don't see that happening any time soon. –The Female
I was serious. Has one of your old lovers replaced me? –The Male
Nope...no replacement. When I'm alone and needing to be touched I just imagine it's you instead of my hand. What about you? –The Female
I think you are not telling the truth. Sex is getting overrated to me. –The Male
New Years Eve was the last time. I've never lied to you. Do you remember that night we were up at 4am reading magazines because I couldn't sleep and no one felt like they had to talk? I like that. I do miss the sex (with you). I miss it a lot because we are good together, but I also miss how comfortable I am with you. That’s hard to come by. And by the way, you didn't answer my question. Just because you feel it's overrated doesn't mean you're not doing it. :o) –The Female
Wow. I think I've done it a few times since then. –The Male
So I guess I'm the one whose been replaced. I didn't realize how much that would hurt. It does. Wow! –The Female

The Ending

The female is hurt, disappointed, crushed, and/or feeling cheap. The male is standing his ground: “I did nothing wrong. I was honest from the beginning.”

Men Real Talk (Mr. Man 1 and Mr. Man 2)

I can't stop laughing. "we are good together". She can’t be serious. I wonder if women realize that men hear that a lot. I wonder if they realize that most sexual encounters with men are just that, a damn encounter. And, she's "hurt". I want to read your response to her “hurt” disclosure. Send it, man! –Mr. Man 1

At this stage I'm wise enough to allow women to stubbornly hold on to their self imposed fantasies which are often laced with deceit and manipulation. –Mr. Man 2

You are seriously not going to respond to her? Leaving her bewildered? Hurt? Disappointed? –Mr. Man 1

Yep. We have gone through this for 2 years. –Mr. Man 2

And, she still lingering with this pathetic ‘I am so hurt crap’? Is there more to the story? –Mr. Man 1

No. I told her that I could only provide her with sex. Of course, I treat her well when she is in my company. As I do all of my company. I have told her on several occasions that I have sex with other women. This is her choice. –Mr. Man 2

I just don't get it. You were that upfront - but she's "hurt". Just a failure to protect her feelings...in my book! Women set themselves up for their own pain! And, men end up the villains! I have said it time and time again: Men should not be responsible for making decisions to protect a females' feelings when they (men) are in fact NOT responsible for their emotions/feelings. Yes, we should not deliberately hurt women - but men cannot live their lives tiptoeing because a woman may get upset or hurt by a decision she MADE to satisfy her animalistic desire. Damn that shyt! You are in the clear! I guarantee you that she will call wanting you to ‘touch’ her. –Man 1

The Conversation continued after the Female spent a night of being “hurt”

Sex date Friday at lunch? Your place.................can I eat it? –The Male
You don't even have to ask.............all yours. –The Female

Men Real Talk continued

Mr. Man 1: She will be crying soon. All hurt again.
Mr. Man 2: Like you said, I am in the clear!

Assembled by The Shadow.