“What up, Dude? How are things going with you and your girl? I like her. She appears to be cool.” -The Shadow"All good on this end. We are doing fine…Yeah, she cool…but she does not give me that Wow Factor.” -Dude
“What is the Wow Factor.” -The Shadow
"I am not sure if she really does it for me? Well, she does but…can’t explain it.” -Dude
“What do you mean? Is she affectionate? Does she listen to you? Does she cook for you when you work late? Does she nag you about hanging out with the fellas? Is she giving you the sex frequently? Can you two have a decent intellectually conversation? Does she give good head?” -The Shadow
“I don’t know…I just may need that excitement thing. Don’t know. “No. She does not nag me. Yes to all the other questions.” -Dude
“How long are we (men over 35) going to continue to look for a damn “Wow Factor”? I guess we will continue to search and search for that ‘feeling’ when in fact we are already getting EVERYTHING we REALLY need from the woman we have selected to be with. It is like we (men) are just waiting and waiting for some miracle to happen: To be knocked down by beauty and all the other superficial BS that we say we need. Here you are pleased with the woman you are dating. She is adhering to all your wants/desires – but you want that Wow Factor? A factor you cannot even define. Love the one you are with, Nigga. Bye!” –The Shadow
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Okay…I was wrong for hanging up on him…I know! I am just amazed by the confused mindsets of some men. Including me! We say we want this (sex appeal, intelligence, mother qualities, etc. – but in truth we are so convoluted that we are clueless on what we desire from women. We drag women through pig waste (our insecurities), sometimes for years, and then one day ‘wake-up’ with, ‘I am not feeling this any longer. You just don’t do it for me.’ Most of the time we don’t tell that committed woman about our early morning revelation. We just start seeing someone else who is now Wow-ing us.
