The roles have been haphazardly and purposely distorted.
Traditionalism has its place when the elements are 'together'. The further we stray from what worked the more we fall deeper and deeper into the worldly abyss of relationship conflict. Recall how much we say, 'music was once good.' 'I wish things were like they use to be.' There is something to our longing for what once was, Tradition. I promise you, if I could wave a magic wond and restore the goods of the past I would in a heart beat. i was not made for what we have today...
http://www.rachaelrayshow.com/show/segments/view/real-life-emmad-menem-marriages/
-The Shadow